Recently i met one of my friends who once was so close to my heart and had touched those corners which no other person had dared to and only God knows if anyone else might be able to, having said that there are some other people who have touched me in their own way and i need not say anything about them as am pretty sure that they shall always be always there, even when i even sneeze hard, they are none other than my own Family members..
Anyways not going away from what i am here for WHO, WHAT and WHY??
Now this beautiful friend of mine has just expressed the grave wishes " You are no longer a friend to me, you just lost it because of your idiotic acts." Well well i might be foolish and i dont deny being one at different ocassions, so if there be one or two or even more with this friend of mine i would not have thought about it too much, but now i need to think..
Ironically once preached by this friend only, which with some initial difficulty to understand (my trademark of taking time) i really loved the idea. It said never go and think WHAT a person has said but rather a more appealing way would be to watch WHO has said that, like if someone says something which hurts you, do not pay attention to the fact WHAT has been said till the time you know WHO has said that, meaning if a dear friend of yours has said something against you then you know what that person is like and you can pardon him for that as you know him inside out and hence you save a good friend from breaking away, which would have been the case had you just paid attention to WHAT he had said only... This certainly was what i initially had difficulty with, how can you pardon a person unless you knew excatly WHAT he had said and WHY?
Now the thing is that under some influence or under situational pressures a person does so many things that would not be understood by anyone else unless the person is close to him, and so begins a drift and no sooner we loose those precious people from our lives and the pain caused by such break aways are one thing which a person remembers throughout... Now if we understand the real meaning which my friend had tried to convey then, it would be FRIENDS FOREVER...
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This post says not to consider WHAT has been said but to consider WHO has said it. Very true. Even I will try following the same always,the only exception being this post itself. Inevitably WHAT was being said throughout the post effected me more....obviously in a good sense.
And as far as you are concerned ,believe me it will always be FRIENDS FOREVER !!
And one more li'l piece of advice from your li'l sis...think less but whenever you think do update your blog. Someone will always be inspired by your thoughts and will be waiting for more and more of MLs..!! samjhe meri jaan..!!
Cheers..!!
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